Glow Up Series – Online Christian Groups
Hello, Bestie! Welcome to the third part of our glow up series – embracing online christian groups.
You might be wondering why I keep calling you “bestie.” Well, it’s because to build a strong and thriving community, we need a shared goal.
For that goal to be achieved, we must integrate ourselves within a community that supports and uplifts us. Since I have a sense of what you’re going through and what you might need to propel you to the next phase of your life, I want to cultivate a sense of familiarity here.
Galatians 6:2 (NIV)
“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”
My hope is that your mind becomes open to the idea of belonging to a community that fosters growth. Why? Because it’s not just about me—it’s about hundreds of other readers who are walking a similar journey.
Some are in the same phase as you, while others have already walked the path and have wisdom to offer. So why not go through this together?
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Recap
In our last post, we focused on the importance of prayer and fasting as the foundation for transformation. We emphasized that fasting without prayer is just dieting, and we must seek God intentionally during this time.
We then introduced the Bible Study Challenge, which runs alongside our fasting and prayer. The goal is to immerse ourselves in God’s Word to truly know His voice and avoid the confusion of other influences.
We stressed that the Bible is not a self-help book, but God’s revelation of Himself to us. By seeking Him first, we can better understand our identity and purpose.
Listen, bestie, we are all social beings. The saying “no man is an island” is profoundly accurate because we are fundamentally designed to thrive in community. It’s not just that community is beneficial for success; it is essential for survival. You were not meant to navigate life alone.
Hebrews 10:24-25 “And let us consider one another in order to provoke love and good works, not neglecting to gather together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging each other, and all the more as you see the day approaching.”
GOD has instructed us to be i fellowship with one another, that’s why church is so important in the Christian faith. So besides it just being good for you to belong to a Christian group it is an instruction from the bible.
How Online Christian Groups Help With Your Transformation
- Inspiration – The first thing you need is inspiration to show you that better is achievable. When you see people who have overcome struggles similar to yours, it ignites a belief in you that transformation is possible.
- Encouragement – There will be days when you want to give up. A strong community reminds you why you started and encourages you to keep going. The online christian bible study group, the christian women group, the prayer group or support group becomes the community that uplifts you and keeps you going.
- Accountability – We are not always the best judges of what we truly need. We can be easily deceived by our wants and desires. Online christian groups help keep us accountable by reminding us of our goals and keeping us aligned with our vision.
Proverbs 27:17 (NIV) “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” - Wisdom – Some people have already walked the path you are embarking on. Learning from their experiences can save you time, energy, and unnecessary mistakes.
- Divine Connections – While God speaks to us individually, He often uses people to impact us, bless us, and relay messages that we might have missed on our own.
How Trauma Affects Your Ability To Be In Groups
The benefits of community are endless. It is a construct you must embrace if you truly desire transformation. However, I know that for some of us, integrating into a group is easier said than done.
Anxiety, past traumas, and introversion can make the idea of connection overwhelming. But let’s be honest—isolating ourselves hasn’t necessarily led to a happier, more fulfilled life. If anything, it has led to feelings of stagnation and even depression.
Our distorted sense of relationships and the unresolved traumas we carry often hinder us from fully functioning in a community. But bestie, let’s agree on one thing: the outcome of unresolved trauma is destruction.
If we genuinely want transformation, we need to begin exposing ourselves to the very situations that scare us—not just for the sake of success (although that is a valid motive), but because we are wasting away in isolation.
The Power of Online Christian Groups
Your season of isolation does not call you to forsake attending bible study, church or whatever edifying meeting with the saints. You need fellowship and to be uplifted.
A great way to ease into community is through online platforms. Digital spaces have become a safe haven for many people. This is not to say that you should forsake physical meetings.
But if you have experienced church hurt and need to ease yourself back into the Christian community, online christian groups have been and are a safe haven for countless individuals.
They have met incredible friends, drawn inspiration, found encouragement, and even discovered a sense of family through online christian support groups. It might seem crazy because it’s all virtual, but never underestimate the power of the internet. People are influenced every day by the connections they form online.
Here’s why online groups can be an excellent starting point:
- Accessibility: You can connect with like-minded individuals from the comfort of your home.
- Diversity: Online support groups bring together people from all walks of life, offering a broad range of perspectives and experiences.
- Anonymity (if needed): If you struggle with social anxiety, online spaces allow you to engage at your own pace before transitioning to in-person interactions.
So, bestie, take the first step. Join a group. It doesn’t have to be something overwhelming. It can be in the form of:
- A christian book club
- A church online group
- A fan base for your favorite christian creator
- A newsletter (Like mine)
Whatever it is, make sure it aligns with your values and aspirations. Community isn’t just about socializing—it’s about finding a support system that helps you grow.
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Overcoming Church Hurt – How To Intergrate back Into Community
If you’ve had negative experiences with a church or christian group in the past, it’s understandable to hesitate. However, consider this: not every every church is the same. If one experience was toxic, that doesn’t mean all will be. Here’s how to approach it with wisdom:
- Be Selective – Choose groups that preach the word of GOD authentically and are more concerned about your growth in the faith than making you feel validated in sin or that are selective about scripture.
- Give Yourself Grace – It’s okay to start slow. Engage in small ways until you feel comfortable.
- Set Boundaries – Healthy communities respect your boundaries and don’t force you into anything uncomfortable.
- Be Open-Minded – Sometimes, the support we need comes in unexpected forms. Stay open to new experiences.
Final Thoughts
You deserve to be in a space where you are seen, heard, and supported. Stop convincing yourself that you have to do life alone. The transformation you seek might just be one connection away. Let’s do this together, bestie. You’re not alone, and you never have to be.
What’s one community you’re considering joining? Let me know in the comments and don’t forget to join me!
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